This is an incredible lesson that I have learnt time after time in my unique journey!
I say unique because it is my journey, so it is unique for me.
Never be afraid of negative or selfish people around you.
Never feel sad or run away from them. Never be upset or disheartened about what they did to you. This is their nature. That is how they are wired. That is their mindset.
If you look deeply, then you will realise that these people in their own way are actually helping you. They are doing you a favour. They are pushing you towards your goal. In the short run it might appear like they caused you immense harm by not giving you the job you wanted or making it so difficult for you that you had to leave a job or a relationship.You may have been sad or you might have felt broken at that time but if you look back in time, it will always be these people who pushed you beyond your limits, who helped you find the determination to change your circumstances no matter how hard it was, and stay focused on the path that you chose.
Yes, It was hard, Yes it was extremely difficult, but if it wasn’t for these people, you would not have chosen this goal, or followed this path and long ago settled for an easy option, an easy path that was not right for you, that was not going to make you a better person, that was not going to push you to explore your true potentials and you would have settled for an easy
BUT
unhappy, unfulfilled life with no possibility of any growth or progress.
The truth is, one should always be growing and making progress. It is one of the basic human needs. To grow is the need of the soul. When we stop growing, we die!
So always be grateful for difficult and negative people who made your life difficult because if it wasn’t for them, you wouldn’t be here.
They did you a favour!
